Are You a Mary or a Martha?
Who does Jesus love more?
There are a lot of different types of women in the world, but most of us relate to one of two sisters in the Bible more than the other. Find out which one you relate to most and what that tells us about God’s love.
You probably know this story. Two sisters, Mary and Martha host Jesus. One is busy working and one is sitting at the feet of Jesus. This story shows how different these women are. I have a personality more like Martha and I always felt inferior to those who were more like Mary.
The Lord showed me another story in Scripture with these same women. He showed me how He created women to be special and His love for them is unique.
He responds differently to their situations, not because one is better than the other, but because he knows them so intimately that He understands their deepest needs. We are fighting spiritual battles every day and division will not help. God is calling us to rise up, unite as sisters and use the greatest weapon he gave us.
Dig Deeper
Are you more like Mary, who finds joy in sitting at Jesus’ feet, or Martha, who thrives on organization and getting things done? This page helps you discover your natural tendencies and how they shape your faith journey. Through a simple quiz and insightful reflections, you’ll gain a deeper understanding of your strengths, struggles, and ways to grow spiritually. Whether you lean toward Mary’s deep emotions or Martha’s structured mindset, finding balance is key.
Explore your strengths and weaknesses below.
You’re a Mary
A “Mary” is someone who is deeply in touch with their emotions, thoughtful, creative, and relationship-oriented. They prioritize sitting at Jesus’ feet, listening, and soaking in His presence. While their deep love and sensitivity are strengths, they may struggle with overthinking and letting go of emotions. Marys often prefer to serve behind the scenes rather than speak out. If sharing their faith feels intimidating, they are encouraged to grow in confidence and learn to tell their testimony. Learn more here.
You’re a Martha
A “Martha” is logical, organized, and goal-oriented, prioritizing facts over feelings. Marthas are excellent at staying composed in stressful situations, solving problems, and maintaining order. However, they may struggle to slow down, rest, and truly listen to others, sometimes appearing impatient or uncaring. To grow spiritually, Marthas are encouraged to spend more time in prayer and scripture meditation, learning to balance action with presence.